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A Curious Marriage 101 Years Ago Today

I am the caretaker of a bit of ephemera for whom there are no direct descendants living today, the wedding book of my great grand aunt Vera Pearl Adams and her husband Perce Chadwick.

Aunt Pearl, as she was called, and Perce had one son, Charles, who passed away in 2008, leaving no descendants. I’ve blogged about Charles before – he was the family member who contributed most to creating my genealogy addiction and he shared many family stories that would now be lost to time. I never knew his dad, as Perce died when Charles was just about ten years old. Aunt Pearl never remarried.

Charles share many family photos when he was living and, after he died, the remaining mementos were passed down to me. I treasure this little wedding book:

1916 Wedding Book

It is in pristine condition and looks more like it is one year old rather than 101 years old.

“Percy” and Pearl married 21 June 1916

I treasure the book because of the guests who signed it:

Wedding Guests

The first two names are Mrs. Nellie Adams, my 2X great grandmother and Aunt Pearl’s mother, and Annie M. Adams, my great grandmother!

Jumping back a few more pages into the guest list, I found:

More Guests

N.J. Adams was Nelson Adams, brother of my 2X great grandfather, Calvin Adams and Chas. E. Adams is my great grandfather, Pearl’s sister. This one little book contains the signatures of ancestors who were gone long before I was around.

I also have the newspaper clippings announcing Perce’s and Pearl’s marriage, but I have to admit I never paid much attention to them, other than skimming them over.

Today, I actually took a good look at what they said and took another look at a letter inside the wedding book and discovered a rather different (odd?) wedding story.

I do remember Charles telling me that his parents both had family responsibilities in terms of caring for elder relatives and that they had eloped. I didn’t see the eloping as any big thing – Perce was 31 and Pearl was 28 when they married – so they were definitely of legal age. I also knew they married in Calais, which is where they lived anyway so they didn’t “elope” very far.

Here is the rest of the story:

Pearl’s Wedding Announcement

Some of Those Who Have Lately Taken On
The Bonds of Wedded Life.


Cards announcing the marriage of
Miss Pearl Adams and Percy Chad-
wick, recently issued, came as a genu-
ine surprise to their friends on the St.
Croix. Although they had been en-
gaged for an extended period, none
but two intimate friends knew of their
wedding day. Miss Pearl is the daugh-
ter of Calvin Adams. She is well known
in musical circles, being a fine
pianist, and is a popular member of the
“13” club. Mr. Chadwick is well known
in business circles, having been con-
nected with the Eastern Steamship
Co. He is now located in Boston.
The Courier extends congratulations.

So far, all looks like nothing out of the ordinary, right? Look at this second announcement:

Second Announcement

Mrs. Percy Chadwick, nee Pearl
Adams, was “at home” to her friends
Tuesday afternoon, the twelfth of
March, at the home of Mr. and Mrs.
Charles Adams, Calais Avenue. Al-
though the storm was severe, many
ventured to pay their respects to the
bride, who wore a gown of sand col-
ored crepe meteor embroidered with
silver and pastel shades. The din-
ing room was pretty in green and
white and refreshments were serv-
ed by Mrs. Stephen Chadwick, Mrs.
Herbert Gardner, Miss Kitty McKay,
Mrs. Harold Murchie and Mrs. Jack
Fraser. The wedding presents were
numerous and beautiful.

Note the highlighted in red date – 12th of March (likely 1917)- but they actually married 21 June 1916. They didn’t tell anyone for nine months and, no, Pearl was not expecting a child.

I am starting to think their families really expected each to devote their lives to caring for the elders.

After finding this, I took another look at the letter that my 2X great grandmother, Nellie Adams, Pearl’s mother, wrote to Perce. Pearl kept the letter for the rest of her life.

From Nellie to Perce, 26th (March?) 1916

Tuesday 26th

Dear Perce!-
You see by the way
I am starting in that it must
be all right. But I cant find
it in my heart to say to (sic) much
against the whole thing for
you certenly  have had up
hill work of it and I would
be the last one to make it
any harder for you both. To
be sure I am mean enough
to want Pearl and it seams (sic)
as though when I would think
of her leaving me that I could
not stand it. I tryed not to think
of it. But you see that was selfish
and that is what I am. so it makes it
all the harder. I had so few and I wanted
them. But Perce I can truly say that I
dont know of anyone, I would rather
give her up to. for I think I know
you well enough to believe you will
always be kind to her. That is all
I can ask of you. Pearl is a good girl
but one that is hard to get aquainted
with. I think you relize  that, and
also know it. You are pretty well
aquainted with her or at least had
aught to be. But you will have to
live with her to know her worth-
She had been so kind & (parhant?) with
me right at my side, day and night,
knew eney moves I made, and so
willing to do for me. I know she will
be the same to you. I was taken right
off my feet when she told me, for
I never had a thought of such a
thing. I knew in all reason you
wouldent  wate  for ever but was in hope
you would put it off as long as
possible, which you did.
In regard to her Father There
is no one of earth would suit
him. She tryed hard enough
for a good meny years, but
will will live him right
out of the whole thing I am
glad to know she has someone
that will make up
for all she has lost him which
I have fath enough to belive you
will do. I think she misses you very
much, altho she dosent say so but
knowing her as I do, that is what
I think. she has been so buizy
since you left that she hasent
had time to think. Annie & Cha’s
asked her to go to the pictures to night she
said she wooldent know how
to act, but I guess it will come
to her. We are enjoying Vernon
just now he is hyst – the same
as ever, happy as can be, we are
so glad to have him home again
if it is for a short time. There
is something doing eney minute
when he is around. In speaking
of yor (brother?) and sister I am (sorry?)
for them for I think it will be
hard for them both. Steve said
they was very lonesom and I know
they must be. Yor brother is an old
(?) and when one is old
changes comes to them it is hard to stand.
Mrs. Phinney has been very sick. Steve said
I am going down to see them right away.
I know well enough they will feel
dreadfull when they find out what
yer tow things have done. I wooldent
want to be the one to tell them
There Pearl and Annie have just come
in and it is only nine ochock so you
see they are keeping good howers.
We had a nice Xmas all of us
the only thing we lacked was you.
but we hope you had a nice
time and no (dout?) did.
There they are talking so fast and
making so much fuss I cant tell
what I am writing about so will
close wishing you Happy and proferes
New Year. I reamin as before your
friend and also
Mrs. A—-

Nammie, as Nellie was known to her family, wrote a heartfelt letter to her new son-in-law, who by the announcement was living and working in Boston, and I guess it was the closest thing to a welcome into the family that he was going to receive.

Notice that the guest book contained many signatures, both male and female, but there was no mention of the father of the bride, Calvin Adams. I know that Calvin, who died in January 1921, was blind for a number of years before his death. I imagine that Pearl cared for him for much of that time, as her mother was also getting up in years.

Sometime after Calvin died, Nammie went to live in Massachusetts with Pearl, Perce and their son, Charles until she  died in December 1927.

I wonder how many suitors Pearl lost because of her parents’ expectations? I don’t know if it is coincidental or on purpose, but Pearl, by all accounts, did the same thing to her son. She died in 1973, with Charles losing at least one fiancee that I know of. He cared for Aunt Pearl during her entire widowhood, which lasted about forty years.

I only knew Aunt Pearl very slightly:

Me, coloring, with Aunt Pearl in the background, c1958

but Charles was a wonderful man. We corresponded for years and I always thought was too bad that he never married his fiancee and had a family.


Charles Adams Chadwick

Several bloggers have written about collateral relatives who have left no descendants and made the point that their stories need to be told, too. That started me thinking about my cousin, Charles.  In reality, Charles was my grandfather’s first cousin, making him my first cousin twice removed. My great grandfather, Charles Adams, and Charles’ mother, Vera Pearl Adams, were siblings.

Aunt Pearl married Perce E. Chadwick in Calais, Maine. They soon moved to Masschusetts for Perce’s work. Charles was their only child., born in Somerville on 20 January 1923.  He was named for my great grandfather, Charles Adams, and Aunt Pearl’s brother, who had died a year before in January 1922.

Generations were a bit staggered in that branch of the family as Charles was a contemporary of my Aunt Barbara and my mother, Doris, although he was their first cousin once removed.

By all accounts, Charles had a happy childhood that came crashing to a halt two days after his 10th birthday. His father, Perce, died on 22 January 1933 in Boston. I don’t know the cause of death, but Perce was buried back home in Calais. Aunt Pearl and Charles moved back there about the same time, likely to be close to family and friends.

He spent a lot of summer vacations playing with my mother and her sisters from the time they were very little until my mother and Aunt Barbara reached their teens.

Charles was a member of the Class of 1941 of Calais High School. After he graduated, he returned to Rhode Island where he worked as a gauge inspector for 2 and a half years.

In April 1944, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy, serving in Guam at the U.S. Naval Supply Depot until February 1946.

When he was honorably discharged from the Navy, he entered the University of Maine at Orono, graduating in 1950 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Public Management.

Charles Chadwick, Young Man 2

At some time during the 1940’s, Charles became engaged to a young lady named Pauline Elizabeth (omitted last name) from Bangor. She was a nurse. He never mentioned having been engaged when we talked or corresponded and I don’t know why they never married. However, after he died, I received his family mementos and he had saved a clipping of their engagement announcement for the rest of his life. If I had to venture a guess, I think perhaps Aunt Pearl was a bit possessive of her only child, but that is strictly conjecture on my part.

After finishing college, Charles worked as a draftsman and product designer for a company in Rhode Island. He lived in Providence and cared for his mother until Aunt Pearl passed away in 1973.

Although I only met Charles a couple of times, we began writing back and forth when I took an interest in the family history. Charles shared many, many family stories about the various members of the Adams clan. You see, Aunt Pearl would like to go visiting with friends and relatives. She never learned how to drive so Charles took her on all of her social calls. Pearl loved keeping up with all the news and Charles said he would just quietly sit to the side while she visited and gossiped, but he listened carefully to all of the stories.

The first time we met after I began doing genealogy research, Charles opened a drawer full of old photos. He told me that he often wondered what would become of them when he was gone, but since I was the first to show interest in the family history, he wanted me to become the keeper of the photographs. Thus, I received my first treasure trove of family mementos and Charles was sharing those stories of long ago with me and I was elated.

There were a lot of photos that had names attached to them, but many, including a lot of tintypes and photos from the 1860’s and 1870’s that were unmarked. To my dismay, Charles said he didn’t know who most of the people were and there was no one left who did.

Aside from my grandmothers who encouraged my family history research, Charles did more than anyone else to encourage and promote my interest in our family roots. To thank him for all he had done for me, I researched his father’s side of the family, which were the Chadwicks, Meserves and Grovers from the St. George, Knox County, Maine. He was appreciative of that as he learned more about them and his paternal heritage.

As Charles got older, he began to have serious memory issues and he entered a care facility for veterans. He died on 24 October 2006 and, like his parents and grandparents before him, went home to Calais for the last time. He was buried next to them in Calais Cemetery, the final resting place for many of my mother’s family.

Thank you, Charles Adams Chadwick, for my 35 year old love affair with family history!