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Patorai Notes – Remembering Emil Patoray

Emil Patoray was one of my first genealogy penpals, my Nana’s second cousin on her father’s side of the family. I never met Emil, but we corresponded a few times, as he tried to answer my questions about that branch of the family.

I thought about Emil recently and looked through some of my old Patorai/Patoray treasures. As I re-read this note, I realized that there were several great little gems of information in it that I hadn’t noticed before.

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Note from Emil

46 Church Street
Elmwood Park
New Jersey 07407

Dear Linda
Received your
envelope with the picture.
Looking at the picture
from the left is my
brother Nick. I am
second. The tall girl
I do not know. Fourth
I think is Nick Tidik and
fifth is his brother
Steve. The car is a 1926
Buick and was my fathers!
Pete Scerbak and Julia
rented the rooms on the

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Emil’s Note (read right side, then left)

top floor of the building,
at that time. Steve Tidiks’
wife died and Steve Tidik
moved in with Pete Scerbak.
My father also got Steve
Tidik a job at the
Pantasote leather Co., just
across the street from the
tavern. The big boss used
to come to the tavern
every day. at that time you
had to know someone to
get a job.

My cousin’s address is:
(blocked out, as she is still living)
31 Dewey Avenue
Clifton, New Jersey
07013
She is a Patoray and lived
in Ujak [former name of Udol]. In fact I
think she visited there
a few times. Write
her and maybe she can
tell you more.

Sincerely yours,
Emil Patoray

This is the photo to which Emil referred in the note:

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1926 Patoray Buick

Emil’s father ran a tavern in the 1920s, but by 1930, he was enumerated as a store keeper. I can’t see much of the background in this photo, but Emil’s comment about the Pantasote Leather Company being right across the street from the tavern unlocked new information.

I have some Passaic phone books from the 1950s and 1960s. The earliest one is from 1953:

When I took a peek inside, I found:

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Pantasote Co., Still There in 1953!

The Pantasote Company was still there in 1953, likely at the same address – 26 Jefferson Street, Passaic, which is downtown right near where the Patoray family lived.

Maria Scerbak Tidik, my grandmother’s sister, had died in May 1926. Emil would have been six in 1926 so this car may well have been brand new, based on his age in the picture.

Next stop, Google Earth, for 26 Jefferson Street:

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26 Jefferson Street, Today

That building certainly looks like it could have been a leather factory back in the day. Today, it appears to be part of the Passaic School District transportation warehouse.

Now, for the tavern across the street. What did it look like and what did the building look like where the rented rooms were above – where the Scerbaks and Tidiks lived?

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Jefferson Street, Across from Pantasote Leather Company

This was a huge disappointment. Not only is the tavern building gone, the entire block has been razed.

However, I learned several new facts about my family from Emil’s note. I now know where this picture was taken, I know that the Tidiks lived with the Scerbaks on this street, that my grandparents lived here for a short time, too, and that Steve Tidik got a job at the leather company because Nicholas Patoray, tavern keeper, knew the “big boss” from across the street.

Thank you, Emil, for helping me get started on the family history! Here I am, 36 years later, still learning from you.

Emil Patoray
31 July 1920-31 October 2000
R.I.P.

 

Nicholas Patoray’s 1927 Vintage Car in Passaic, NJ

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Nicholas Patoray’s Vintage Automobile

First, I have to say that Nicholas Patoray probably never owned this beautiful automobile. Nick was a Slovak immigrant, born in 1892 in my grandmother’s village of Udol.  Nick and my Nana were cousins. Years ago, I corresponded with Nick’s son, Emil, to learn more about the family history and he shared this picture with me. Emil has since passed away.

While Nick didn’t own this car, he most likely did drive it. He was a store keeper in the 1920s and early 1930s and I think this car was probably used to make deliveries.

I looked online for images of vintage cars. This picture was taken about 1926 or 1927 because the boys on each end are my dad’s cousins, Nick (left) and Steve. I’m omitting their surname because Nick, well into his 90s, is still with us. He looks to be about 5 or 6 years old here. His brother, Steve, was two years older and he looks like he is about 7 or 8. I originally thought the three children in the middle were all Patoray children, but the two boys are too young. I believe the girl is Emily Patoray, who was Steve’s age. Emily’s two brothers were older than her. The other two children might just be playmates who were excited about having their picture taken.

I think this car might be a 1927 Chrysler Imperial, a modified touring car. See the curvy sort of S decorative strip behind the rear oval window? The regular 1927 Imperial had the same strip in a picture I found online.

The Patoray family lived at 128 First Street, about a block away from St. Michael’s Church, which they attended. There is no 128 First Street address today. The entire block is now the Etta Gero School #9, but it was originally Pope Pius XII High School.

I have no information about Nick’s job as a store keeper. “Store keeper” instead of “clerk” sounds like he might have opened a business. My grandparents opened their meat market at about the same time.

If you know can ID the make and model of this car, please leave a comment. I would love to know what it is.

Maria Patorai Scerbak

Choosing an ancestor who is the “same” as me is tough. Suggestions of how an ancestor is the same included having the same name, same home town or with which ancestor do I have the most in common. Hmmm.  Only my father and grandmother were born in the same city as me. I don’t have any other ancestors named Linda and there are only a handful sharing my birthday and I’ve already written about the one that I know the most about. I’m left handed and believe that trait comes through my grandfather’s Stuart family, but I don’t know much about their personalities.

I do know that I have strength and determination to forge on so I am going to write about my great great grandmother, Maria Patorai Scerbak because one look at statistics tells me that she must have been a strong, determined woman.

I have no photos of her – I doubt that she ever had her picture taken. My grandmother Julia never told me too much about her either, although in the 1980’s, she did remember that Maria died not long after Julia returned to live in the United States in 1910. As far as I know, Maria never left her village life.

Maria Patorai was born 5 March (almost on my 7 March birth date) 1839 in the small village of Ujak (now Udol), in today’s Slovakia.

Records begin in 1828 so Maria’s birth is one of the earlier records that exist there. Her parents were John Patorai and Anna Szurgent and she was the second born of six known children.

Udol is not far from the town of Stara Lubovna on the south side of the Tatras Mountains near the Polish border.  The equally tiny village of Hajtovka next to it shared a common church, St. Dmitry Greek Catholic Church.

Not much has been written about Udol and Hajtovka, as they are and always have been very small villages populated with peasant farmers. At one time, I had seen a book that outlined its growth and decline – neither village ever had more than about 1000 people and 600-700 was more common.

Daily life was hard for the villagers. They worked long hours for the wealthy landowners and barely made enough money to live on. Education wasn’t an option and “medical care” mostly consisted of home remedies. Their lives centered around the church – baptisms, marriages and burials – and Sunday Mass. It was the anchor in their lives.

For women, child bearing was a danger. The mortality rate for mothers and babies was quite high. However, pestilence was also a danger for everyone. About every 20 years or so, the church records denote a very high number of burials for the year. Cause of death at those times is usually diphtheria, cholera or typhoid. The summer of 1873 was a hard one, with 15 of 21 deaths due to cholera:

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St. Dmitry’s Burials, Summer 1873

Maria married John Scerbak on 11 February 1861 in the little church in Udol.

Maria had the strength to give birth to eight children:

1. John, born 18 July 1862; died 28 February 1938, Garfield, NJ
2. Maria, born 17 April 1865; died 1 April 1872, Udol
3. Michael, born 17 February 1868; died 16 March 1932, Udol
4. Anna, born 11 June 1870; died 22 December 1955, Slovakia
5. Stephen, born 3 January 1875; died May 1876, Udol
6. Suzanna, born 28 June 1878; died 11 January 1879, Udol
7. Maria, born 19 September 1881; died 28 Dec 1882, Udol
8. Stephen, born 10 December 1883; died 1 April 1884, Udol

She also had the strength to bury five of them as very young children.

Maria, herself, survived the hardships of life and passed away at the age of 72 years old.

She was buried in the cemetery of the little church of St. Dmitry. She had to have a lot of strength and determination to make it to the age of 72.